A thorough list of questions to ask a pediatrician when you come in to interview them at a meet and greet.
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Choosing a pediatrician for an unborn baby might seem like a daunting task. Everyone's got opinions and suggestions (and no, that doesn't stop after you have the baby!).
The ONE suggestion I have for you is to do what is right for YOU and your growing family.
I made a super thorough list of questions you might want to ask a pediatrician at a meet and greet. You might not need to ask every question, but I thought it was worth writing down to get you to start thinking about what might be important to YOU in order to choose the right pediatrician for you and your family.
Read the list and all my notes, then at the bottom of the blog post there is a link to download a free printable pdf of questions to ask your pediatrician so you don't have to write them all down. There is even space for you to write in any additional questions you might want to ask.
We moved internationally when our son was 6 months, so we had to "shop" for a pediatrician twice, so here are some things to consider!
Before you go in to meet your pediatrician
Start by making a list of 3-5 pediatricians you would like to meet. If you have no idea where to start, here are a few suggestions:
- Talk to other parents in your neighborhood
- Ask your OBGYN for recommendations (this is where I got my list of pediatricians!)
- Look at your insurance directory and sort by pediatricians in your area with better reviews
Then write down their names and contact info. Give them a call and say "I am currently X months pregnant and my partner and I are looking to meet with a few pediatricians. Is it OK to ask you a few questions and schedule a meet and greet with Dr. _____ or another doctor in your practice?" How quickly they get back to you and how they treat you on the phone is actually an important sign to pay attention to.
Another thing to think about before actually going to meet with a pediatrician is what you want in a pediatrician. Someone who insists on vaccinations or lets you spread out the vaccines based on your preferred schedule? One who tries natural remedies instead of prescribing antibiotics every time you come in? A male or a female doctor - picture yourself as a 15 year old boy or girl and think about what you would prefer. Someone available at all hours in case of an emergency? Someone who will see you quickly instead of having to take a half day off work every time your child has an appointment? Someone who is within a 15 minute drive with easy parking? Remember, you might be going to their office several times a week when your kiddo is really sick.
When to start looking for a pediatrician
When in your pregnancy to start looking for a pediatrician really varies by where you are located and how your pregnancy is going. If you have twins or a high-risk pregnancy, you might want to nail down a pediatrician earlier in your pregnancy.
If you live in an area with a shortage of pediatricians, you want to make sure you find one that is accepting new patients and has time to see your baby when he or she is born. Again, ask around to see what other parents did, and ask your OBGYN.
We started seriously looking for and interviewing a pediatrician around 7 months, but we had an idea of a few decent pediatricians who would see us just in case our baby came early, and we are pretty easy-going about things so it didn't worry us to wait until later in the pregnancy.
Keep in mind:
You don't have to find your forever pediatrician right now. Sure, it is great to find someone you trust and love who will get to know your kids as they grow. But remember, a doctor is a service you pay for, just like anything else. If you are not happy with the service after 1 visit, or after a few years, it is OK to switch. Hopefully this takes some of the pressure off finding the right doctor.
And don't feel weird about interviewing a pediatrician. Don't feel bad asking them LOTS of questions. They are going to be making a TON of money from you over the next 18 years, so don't worry about taking up 30 minutes of their time to make sure they are the right fit.
Questions to ask a pediatrician
Let's start with the basics. Before you even go to meet and greet a pediatrician, call up their office and ask the following questions. This will save you time - you might either decide not to go to this pediatrician practice, or it will save you time when you go in person.
- Double check whether they accept your insurance
- What other insurance do they accept? (In the case of a job change)
- How many pediatricians do they have in their practice?
- Do you get to choose your pediatrician?
Questions to ask the pediatrician when you come in for a meet and greet
Office logistics questions for your pediatrician:
- What are your office hours? Are they open on weekends? If both parents are working and their jobs are not flexible, an office that is open outside of 9-5 is super helpful. Babies tend to get sick at night AND on Sundays when doctors are not working. We ended up going with a pediatrician practice that had a few offices within an hour drive and one of them was open 24/7!
- Do they have a 24/7 nurse line? We've had to call our pediatrician's nurse line at all hours of the day with emergency questions, and it was a life saver (literally and figuratively!). Once, the nurse calmed me down at 11am and told me what to do about our son being sick. Another time when my son was having trouble breathing at 3am, the nurse told me to send her a video of my son breathing and called me back to tell me to go to the emergency room because he was in respiratory distress.
- What hospital are they affiliated with? What hospital will they refer you to if your child needs any specialty testing or procedures? Then do some research on that hospital and their pediatrics department and make sure that hospital is in-network for your insurance.
- How long is a typical wait when you show up for your schedule appointment on time? One pediatrician we visited said it was about a 1-2 hour wait in the waiting room even with an appointment. We did NOT go with that one!!
- How quickly can you make an appointment for a sick visit? When your newborn baby has a fever, every minute feels like HOURS and you need to get to the doctor immediately. Our pediatrician's office always scheduled their appointments so they would have time for unexpected sick visits throughout the day, so we never had to wait more than a half hour when we showed up with a sick baby!
- Is there a separate waiting area for sick and well patients? You do NOT want your child getting sick when you bring them in for a routine well visit.
- Can they schedule newborn baby appointments early in the morning so that no one else had a chance to bring their germs in that day?
- Do they do blood draws in the office, or do they refer you to a lab? In-office blood draws are much more convenient, obviously, plus there is the added benefit that the phlebotomist is very good at drawing blood from babies and squirmy toddlers, is invested in your child's well being, and is not a disgruntled worker in a lab.
- Is their blood work lab in-network for your insurance? If not, are they willing to send the blood work to a different lab?
- Do you see different doctors within the practice, or do you only see your pediatrician? Both can have their advantages. We were able to make appointments with all the doctors in the practice just to meet them, but then made appointments with our main pediatrician when the schedule worked out.
- Do they use email or texting for anything, or do you always have to come in or call? Our first pediatrician had an email address where we could sort out all insurance, referral, lab results things so we didn't have to play the voicemail game all day, and it was very efficient. They also answered non-emergency health questions we had through email. It was super convenient. When we moved to the Bahamas, our pediatrician gave us his cell phone and answered lots of questions about rashes, nasty cuts, allergic reactions through pictures we sent in text messages, saving us lots of time and worry!
Questions to ask a pediatrician
Below you will find a very thorough list of questions. Perhaps too thorough. You might not even care about how your doctor feels about some of these questions. But you should ask them anyway.
Here's why: Asking more questions will help you understand how the pediatrician approaches healthcare and mother & baby well being in general. The longer you talk to the pediatrician, the more you'll see whether they are the right fit for your family, even if you already know the answer to your questions or do not care about the answer either way.
For example, the question about breastfeeding vs formula. You might be set on formula because of various reasons, such as needing to take medication that is not breastfeeding-friendly, or having to go back to work in 2 weeks with 12 hour shifts and no time to pump. Because of this, you might not even bother to ask the doctor's opinion. But what if it turns out your doctor actually is so against formula that they will make you feel like an awful mother for making the right choice for your family? Or what if you REALLY want to breastfeed and have trouble at first, but your doctor doesn't think a lactation consultant can actually help and laughs it off when you bring it up? They might not be the right person for you then.
You also want to get to know your doctor a little, just to see if you connect. Besides, the more questions you ask, the more you'll see whether the doctor is caring, kind, compassionate, and understanding of the stresses that come with having a baby.
Anyway, here we go!
- How long have you been with this practice? Where did you work before this?
- Are you certified by the American Board of Pediatrics (ABP)? (Or whatever is the equivalent in other countries, if you're outside the US)
- Do you have any kids?
- Do you come to the hospital where we will give birth? If not, what do I have to do to get you the hospital records? Typically, a pediatrician examines your baby in the hospital in order for them to be discharged. Some hospitals have a relationship with some pediatricians. Some hospitals provide their own pediatricians. This is a question that is also worth asking your hospital. Ideally, when you go to the pediatrician for your first appointment, the pediatrician will have all the hospital birth and discharge records available. Depending on the day of the week you give birth, this might mean you only have a 1-2 business days to make sure those records get from the hospital to the pediatrician. You will be sleep deprived, bleeding, leaking milk, and too scared to poop or shower. You do NOT want to be worrying about these logistics and making extra phone calls. But at the end of the day, this is only one minor detail, so don't worry about it too much if the process is confusing but you love the doctor otherwise. You'll figure it out.
- How soon after birth should we bring our baby to see you? Do we have to schedule an appointment immediately after giving birth to secure a spot?
- What are your thoughts on breastfeeding and formula?
- What are your thoughts on circumcision?
- What is your policy on antibiotics? Do you try any natural approaches first?
- How long do you recommend waiting before bringing our baby outside for a walk, if the weather is nice? One of the doctors we interviewed said he does not recommend even going out to your backyard for 1-2 months in the summer, even if it's a perfect 75 degree day and we are in the shade. I did NOT love that answer and we didn't go with that doctor.
- Are you flexible with spreading out the immunization/vaccination schedule?
- Does your office have any specializations or extended training, such as lactation help, sleep training, occupational therapy, picky eating, allergists, gastroenterologists? You never know...
- How long is a typical check-up? Sadly, it is realistic to only spend 10 minutes or so with a doctor, and the rest of the time will be with a nurse.
As you see, most of the questions on this list are about the office and not the pediatrician. While the pediatrician is super important, you'll probably be dealing with them only about 20% of the time, and the rest of the time you'll be dealing with the nurses, the billing department, the admin at the front desk to make appointments and getting doctor's notes and forms signed for daycare.
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Tuesday 20th of October 2020
It was helpful when you said to see if they accept your insurance. My sister was telling me last night about how she and her husband are moving to a new city and will be needing to find a new pediatrician for their daughter to see, and they want to make sure that they can find the right one for them. I'll make sure to pass this information along to them so that they can know what to look for when finding one.
Monday 12th of October 2020
I liked it when you mentioned asking how long has the pediatrician worked in the field in order to find out if he or she is the right fit to care for your child. Since I am going to move to a new town soon, I am looking for a reliable doctor for my newborn son. I will keep in mind to ensure that he is an experienced doctor before choosing him as my son's pediatrician.
Monday 29th of June 2020
You made good point that having a flexible immunization schedule would be quite a good factor when determining the right pediatrician for my child. I will be giving birth about a month and a half from now and I'd like to make sure that I have already prepared what I need for my child before delivery. By then, I would like to be able to do my motherly duties easily while also recovering from labor.
Thursday 2nd of July 2020
Thanks for stopping by :) Yes, that was important to me. Wishing you luck with your delivery and enjoy your new baby!!